Friday, April 11, 2008
Multiple Personalities
So i realize that this post is slightly late, but I'm kind of glad i waited until after our class discussion today to make this post. Our talk about how we have different personalities around different groups, and Pat's mention of his differentiation between the Professional Patrick and the student Pat was interesting. It got me thinking about myself and situations like what we discussed and I realized that I'm the same way. When it comes to school or work, I always make sure to use my full name for the sake of sounding more professional and more mature. When applying for internships or for a new job, using nicknames is not something that would aid in the acquisition process. This doesn't just come up between professional and non-professional settings though. After placing thought into this idea, I realized that the different people I hang out with call me different nicknames, now I don't know if that means I act different around them, or if it is simply that I introduced myself different ways. But when i spend time with coworkers, most just use my first name, whereas with high school friends or close friends from when I first came to Madison, I'm known by only my last name. It has kind of made me want to be more attentive when I'm around different groups of people to see if there are slight changes in actions or personality when being put into these different situations.
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I think you brought up a great point about how we sometimes change who we are or present ourselves around different groups of people. I act differently towards my coworkers and family than I do my friends from college, and I think that shows that I am capable of portraying different personas, but in the end, we are still very different than the people who we think we sometimes act as.
If I think about it, I also present myself differently to different people. I noticed that I often talk to different friends in different ways and I pick up certain words from them and find myself using them more when I'm around that specific friend. I also talk about different topics depending on the friend since they all have different interests and in a way, I feel like I'm somewhat "switching" my personality since I'm talking about different things and thinking differently with different people.
Nicknames and different personas really walk hand in hand. Often times people will act differently in correspondence with an already existing nickname, and other times people will acquire a nickname based on a certain behavior.
Which came first, the persona or the nickname?
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